I would say yes, then have a talk about safe sex.
Because if you say no? They’ll sneak off somewhere and do it anyway, in a much less safe manner, abd then you just have to hope to NOT hear about it because if you do it’ll be a “I majorly fucked up” one.
So yes. Say yes. Speaking as; somebody’s girlfriend.
As a hunter, I can explain this.
Deer cannot see color and actually have incredibly shit eyesight in comparison to something like a turkey or a coyote. They rely mostly on scent and hearing to decide what to do.
They freeze because the light completely blinds them, the car has no natural smell, and all they hear is the same roaring they’ve been hearing the past hour getting slightly louder.
Like a frog in a boiling pot situation, it’s fine until it’s suddenly not and then they can’t see-
The only recurring dream I have anymore is an ever growing collection of dogs that are in various stages of neglect, some of which are family pets that have since passed away.
I fucking hate it, there’s never any food to feed them no matter how hard I look and there’s almost always a fight or an escapee that I have to deal with only to be done with that and be missing (or gaining) even more dogs.
I’m always in a panic when I wake up.
I’d like to say that I have never neglected a dog, and only have one which I love very much, strangly, she is usually not present in the dog horde.