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Cake day: December 30th, 2023

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  • I wish I could remember where I read it, but I do remember reading either an article or paper that laid out that when people are victimized, other abusers tend to be able to spot that somehow. Something about body language and it’s all subconscious.

    I don’t have the answer here except to just build a shell and be a dick for a while, but I do want to say I am genuinely sorry you have to deal with that. Always being the victim or always putting on a mask is fucking exhausting and soul draining.













  • Warning: this shit don’t make sense. Probably.

    More than usual tonight. I’m going through some shit and the folks that usually help me out when I hit bottom are going through their own shit right now. So we’re all drunk as hell going through the shit together. Even if one of us stopped drinking an hour ago because he’s on the east coast.

    Different places, different shit, different time zones, but we’re all Texas drunks tonight.

    They both have no comment here.





  • My family is like this. All we do is make fun of each other. It’s kept mostly internal (including close family friends) but that’s how we show love.

    I still dress like a ranch hand about a quarter of the time even though I’m only out there to lend a hand once in a while. I showed up at my parent’s place while my siblings were in town while I was wearing my boots and a pearl snap shirt. In our group chat my dad still asks “Hey Cowboy, did ya yee any haws today?” and that’s been over a year.