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Cake day: July 4th, 2023

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  • 대박! 그렇게 넓은 마음이 있네요. 저도 감사드리고 싶어요. 우리 문제 다 돈으로 풀 수 있다면…

    Maybe if you want it to be a surprise you could talk to a family member of his? Hm but no one should give you personal information on the promise of money… Maybe the other commenter has the right idea: approaching the loan servicer as a buyer of the loan. That happens once in a while: your loan is owned by one company, then suddenly another company owns it because they’re trading stuff. Once you buy the loan you could just forgive the balance.


  • It’s not going to be a secret. It either wont happen or it will happen with his consent. It requires a ton of confidential info and verifications. Also, while it varies from person to person, you could be looking at over $100k. We’re talking loans that take 20-40 years to pay off. Just wanted to make sure you’re aware of how massive these loans tend to be.

    All that said, yes, if you show up to financer with $100k they’re gonna wanna take it, but they’re also gonna wanna make sure it’s real.








  • tried all the bullshit in these comments, nothing worked long term. was still miserable and hated myself. progressed into an eating disorder. only thing that ended up working was to seek psychological help. learning intuitive eating helped stop the binges. I let go of the obsession with food, obsession with weight, obsession with image. accepting yourself as you are is the only way to change. fancy that.









  • she didn’t ask. and why would my job be relevant to her interests? why would my disapproval of her job choices be any more relevant than my approval?

    the question of “what do I do with my life” is a ridiculous thing to offload onto someone else. it’s your life, not mine. the only thing I can say is how I came about my own decisions, and for me that starts with recognizing when something lucrative looks fucking boring